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Have you packed in smoking? Thinking about it?
Well, as the 1st July springs upon us all, maybe its time to seriously consider packing it in once and for all. Some A4U members have already packed in smoking, some knocking it on the head for serveral years, for others only a few days have passed.
Whether you agree or disagree with the ban of smoking in public places, it's got to be healthier for everyone, and means no more clothes that stink to high heaven! So it has to be a good thing!
Anyway, I thought it may help if we created a community where we could help each other as and when we pack in, give each other support, tips and advcie. Its open to everyone who has ever smoked or is thinking about packing in.
Any ex-smokers with suggestions or stories of what worked for you, please share your experiences.
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OK it's been 5 days now!
Nice to know I have 2 other colleagues on here cheers... although they did post in 2007 that they were planning to quit and I am sure I still see them going out for smoke breaks....
First big test is Awins event on Thursday - if you see me - don't offer me a fag!
The only reason to give up is your health - you might be OK now and think that 40/50+ is whole lifetime away and you'll be too old to worry and be knackered anyway - but I shudder at the thought that if I hadn't stopped smoking when I did I would, literally - I MEAN IT - be on oxygen now and barely able to move far without getting totally out of breath and look like an old crone - UGH!!! (no smart remarks from anyone - thankyou!) - my quality of life would be nil - and what a shame that would be with all this lovely income from AM - believe me I'm living the life and thanking heaven I quit when I did
IMO... The government want people to think they are doing something about the problem, i.e. the smoking ban (ultimately eases the strain on the NHS), putting extra tax on cigs (pricing poeople out of smoking) etc... Sure some people will quit because of the price rises but most wont and the government wont be any worse off, they achieve their goals, help people quit + keep the money flowing.
Sadly the reality is that smokers contribute billions of pounds to the UK economy every year. If everyone were to quit tomorrow this country would be in trouble. They would get the money back somehow but they would just add tax (a lot of it) to other stuff such as alcohol and petrol etc...
I'm no economy expert or anything but I think that's quite close to the truth.
Alcohol is next, that's just as bloody bad for you. 18 year olds go out, get hammered then go and wrap their car around a tree or get the shit kicked out of them in a night club and end up on life support, oh yeah and it is also very addictive but to the point where it can literally destroy your's and your family's lives. Strange how no-one is bothered about this though?
P.s. yes I do drink and get lashed up like the next guy
It's a love hate relationship, I love it, it's great to get out and have a smoke to just relax for those 2 minutes of release but at the same I realise the immense damage it is causing to me and others around me.
Strangley, I think the ban is a good thing and it may even help me quit.
Nearly everyone I speak to who is a smoker, is 100% behind the ban. Yeah its inconvenient, but I think 95% of smokers want to give up, and therefore most welcome the ban as a way they maybe able to cut down. I think everyone hates the smell of it on clothes, or in hotel rooms.
Still not sure about giving up on 1st July though.
So, as all reformed smokers say, if I can do it anyone can - which is obviously rubbish - but if you get in the right mind set you will do it.
I used the strongest patch AND when I felt the craving for nicotene, or about to murder my husband and kids, I popped in a piece of Nicorette chewing gum. The hardest part was when it got boring - after a few weeks you find so much time on your hands, it's amazing how quick you can do stuff without stopping for a quick drag! - I think that's when most folk cave in - stopping smoking is the easy part , keeping stopped is incredibly hard.
BUT it is also one of the best things I've ever done - my health is so much better - I would probably be a wheezing, cough ridden, wrinkly (smoking is notorious for producing all those horrible tiny wrinkles round your mouth) yellow skinned, yellow toothed old hag by now if I hadn't.
We've saved a fortune on decorating - especially ceilings! The kids aren't ashamed of us - well, not for smoking anyway.
and to be really really serious I don't think Dave would have made it through his bout of pneumonia if he was still a smoker - and he gave up 20 years ago - and according to the doctors it still had an effect.
and on the PLUS side my brother quit the same time I did, smoked about the same as well - and he found it surprisingly easy - off the patches after 2 weeks and never looked back - so you won't know until you try.
I've tried in the past but always caved in (normally around pint #3). It was always when one of my mates decided to light up while we were having the odd few in the pub that I could hear myself saying "ah do you mind if I have one?"....next thing i know theres a pack of 20 in my pocket and I'm smoking more than i did before.
Hopefully this time I'll last as the pub won't smell so tempting.
Different things work for different people I guess - Lots of people recommended the Allen Carr book, but I didn't fancy the camp bloke off Friday Night Project telling me how to give up fags
I could start again tomorrow quite easily as I quite enjoyed smoking and like to sit near smokers in pubs (won't be able to do that from next week.. i'll have to join them outside!)
My previous attempt at giving up lasted 8 months, and then i started a job i really hated so started again.. smoked for another 6 years until last year, so if you fail, just pack it in again.
Got to say, I do feel a lot better now, don't get out of breath walking up a slight hill or running for a bus anymore... Still got to lose the 2 stone I put on after giving up though
Get the silkquit meter from
http://www.silkquit.org/sqmmiv/meter.aspx
That really helped me.
I was also mentally ready to give us smoking too which I think is important.
I chewed menthol chewing gum - not special whatsit stuff though - and had to struggle to give that up - but its cheaper and less foul than smoking.
I read a book once that reckoned putting odl cigs in a jar and opening the jar and sniffing when you want a cig - and sniffing until you're physically sick of the smell - At the time I started to do this but realised I didn't want to give up and that this might work so I stopped it.
It's a horrid thing to do but will create the physical revulsion you might need.
Throw all lighters, ashtrays etc away too.
Did quit for a month last year, and found it easier than I thought. I just ended up going cold turkey, as I tried patches and had a bit of an extreme reaction to them! They seemed to burn my skin, and for the first hour it was really painfull, and ended up with big red inflamed squares where the patches had been. Also made me feel really sick!
As a result I just went cold turkey, and used my willpower, and to be honest I really didn't find it that difficult.
However, my gf who also gave up at the same time couldn't manage it and started smoking again. I hated smelling the smoke on her, and kissing her (which I noticed for the first time!), and when it became clear she wasn't going to quit I started smoking again.
Thinking about quitting again though. The thing i found hardest was at work, as a smoking break gave me a chance to get away from the monitor and into the fresh air every now and then, and not smoking I had to give that up.
Yup, this is my concern, however with the new laws coming in, I can't smoke in work, and as I work on a production site, it means I can't smoke outside our office either. I have a 5 minute walk and through security to get my fix from Monday onwards. I am hoping that this inconvenince will make me ask whether its all worth it or not.
Also agree about it being my only vice, and I don't dislike it, unless its a Sunday morning and I have smoked more on the Saturday night. Everytime I feel proper ill and won't miss that feeling at all.
Many of you know, I packed it in for 9mths and for some strange reason, from day 5 onwards I was as happy as larry, not a miserable snappy git as I expected. During this attempt, I read Allen Carrs book and used patches given to me by my GP. In order to get the next set of patches I had to breath into some contraption which measured my Carbon Monoxide levels so there was no cheating allowed!
In the past I have tried going cold turkey which didn't work, and also I've tried hypnotherapy which worked for no more than 24 hours.
A few links;
http://www.gosmokefree.co.uk/
http://www.nicorette.co.uk/
http://www.bootscommittoquit.com/